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Sunday, June 07, 2009
Jackie Gingrich Cushman :: Townhall.com Columnist
Enjoying Life During Difficult Times
by Jackie Gingrich Cushman
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One of the best ways to enjoy life is to be grateful.  To express gratitude, you must acknowledge that you are better off because of forces outside your control and be thankful to whoever has provided this benefit. Expressing gratitude is the opposite of complaining.  A simple shift in mindset can make a profound difference in how you view your life, which can then change your thinking.

With gratitude comes a sense of pleasantness. Few people want to spend time with someone who is unpleasant. Try to be pleasant when you feel satisfied and, more important, when you are faced with obstacles, because that is when doing so will provide the biggest payback.

Recovery is key to peak performance, and includes physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual areas.  Challenge yourself by seeking out situations of stress, but make sure that you rest and recover afterward rather than pushing too hard and risking the possibility that you might snap.  When you feel yourself get close to the edge, simply back off for a few minutes and then try again.

Giving to others is true charity and comes from the heart as well as the mind. It reflects a shared sense of humanness. When you help someone, you increase your own sense of being human. And it’s not wholly selfless: when you help others, someday they may help you or one of your loved ones.

Few people have heard of flow in regards to living.  Flow is the sense of effortless action, a feeling that occurs when everything seems to click perfectly into place.  Athletes often refer to being "in the zone," religious mystics call it the state of ecstasy, and artists call it rapture. This state is achieved by using your strengths, and stretching to the edge of your ability – living life to its fullest.

My advice to the recent high school graduate?  Follow all five of our principles, Dream Big, Work Hard, Learn Every Day, Enjoy Life and Be True to Yourself.  Live every day as if it’s your last – because you never know when it will be.

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Jackie Cushman is a freelance writer who lives in Atlanta, Georgia. Her column also runs later in the week in the Northside Neighbor.
 
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Not a "dissenter," Don -- a phony
Don writes:
"As a dissenter, I tend to champion the right of the individual to not be oppressed by the majority."


-- But only if the "individual" isn't a Judeo-Christian theist and moralist, right, champ? In that case, "all bets are off," yes? Though I'm sure you'll grant the right to practice religion privately, so long as it's kept out of the public square.

Thanks, Benefactor! Freedom from oppression!


Don writes:
"As it pertains to abortion, you are free to persuade and cajole … "


-- OK, so we're "free to persuade and cajole," just not to "impose" our "peculiar view of morality." Do I have that right?

Well, by crackie, THAT makes A LOT of sense! (I begin to suspect that consistency is not one of your gifts, though, just as sound reasoning is not.)


Don writes:
"The burden they must logically bear is to prove beyond cavil that not only A GOD exists, but THEIR god is the one true Supreme Being. It should come as no surprise to you that I have never had any takers."


-- I'd venture to say that you have had A TON of takers, but have chosen instead to disregard anything they've said. Apparently, the "evidence" you pretend to seek doesn't fit too well with your biases.

You write, too, that pro-lifers are "not at liberty to engage in terrorism." And of course, we already know this.

In Don's right-of-the-individual-to-not-be-oppressed world, only the hapless Islamofascist victims of Cheney's waterboard get permission to engage in terrorism.

On Deism and niceness
Don writes:
"One of the nice things about being a deist is in never needing to get entangled in debates over the existence of God."


-- Yeah, that does sound kinda nice.

But of course, you really needn't be a "deist" to avoid entanglements "in debates over the existence of God."

Why don't you just shut up about it?

Wouldn't that accomplish the same thing?
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