Suicide. I know of no other word by itself that triggers more alarm, fear, and discomfort.
The rapid rise of death by suicide has shaken families, schools, churches, and communities to their core. We have all heard the horrific stories of the 15-year-old who was bullied, the veteran who couldn’t take the traumatic memories, and the elder person who just wished the pain would end. These broken souls are all around us and are crying out for hope.
No matter how uncomfortable it may be to discuss, or however ill-equipped we may feel to reach those who are hurting, suicide can no longer be an issue that gets overlooked in the American church. There is a suicide crisis unfolding in America right now, particularly in the younger generations, and it’s time for followers of Christ to take action.
Before the pandemic, suicide was the tenth leading cause of death in the United States, claiming the lives of over 47,000 people. But it was also the second leading cause of death for those between the ages of 10 to 34. It was the fourth leading cause of death among individuals between the ages of 35 and 54.
In 2019 alone there were an estimated 1.38 million suicide attempts. On average, there are 130 suicides every single day. And most what’s most tragic? Each and every case represents an entirely preventable cause of death.
Enter 2020 and the COVID-19 pandemic. We witnessed a massive loss of jobs, economic uncertainty, and stay-at-home orders — not to mention the rise of racial tension and political unrest that fomented as the year dragged on. While we won’t have statistics for 2020 until sometime in 2022, there are some alarming signs. In a COVID-19 and mental health report from Mental Health America, over 178,000 people reported frequent suicidal ideation. From January to September 2020, 77,470 youth reported experiencing frequent suicidal ideation.
What if every church leader, volunteer, or Sunday school teacher was trained to recognize the problem and risk factors of suicide, to respond to someone who is suicidal, and to refer them to professional help? And what if those same church leaders also aspired to train every parent or teacher in their sphere of influence with the same skills? Imagine the hundreds of thousands of everyday Americans who would be better equipped to identify and respond to the signs of suicide.
That’s exactly what we’ve begun to imagine at the American Association of Christian Counselors. At AACC, we’ve recently developed the “Hope-focused 3 R’s suicide prevention training.” This course is built around 3 critical stages that anyone can use to help prevent the horror of suicide. Step one is learning how to recognize the problem, risk factors, and warning signs of suicide. Step two is learning how to respond, by helping folks evaluate the level of suicide risk, ask critical assessment questions, and respond with sensitivity. Finally, step three is understanding where to refer someone for resources on handling suicidal thoughts, and how to discuss some of those measures of prevention.
I recently read an important story on how the surge of student suicides pushed Las Vegas schools to reopen. The Clark County superintendent revealed that the youngest student who died by suicide was only 9 years old.
Stories like this rattle me more than any other crisis I’ve witnessed. We no longer have the luxury of assuming suicide only affects someone else’s community. It’s affecting every neighborhood, every demographic, and people of every race, religion and creed. The church is commanded to be the hands and feet of Jesus wherever we find ourselves; and this is where we find ourselves – in the middle of a suicide crisis.
Even if you don’t use our method, please, take a moment today to educate yourself on some way to be a part of the solution.
It’s the most important thing you’ll do today. Because someone’s life might depend on it.
Tim Clinton, Ed. D., LPC, LMFT, is president of the American Association of Christian Counselors. He serves as the executive director of the James Dobson Family Institute and is the cohost of Dr. Dobson’s signature radio program, Family Talk. The author of more than 30 books, Dr. Clinton is licensed as a professional counselor and a marriage and family therapist. Follow him @DrTimClinton.
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