Note to readers: After November’s election, I felt compelled to publish this letter because of the growing entitlement or something-for--nothing attitude that seems to be seeping into nearly every crevice of American society. The letter is written for my high school wrestling team. Most of my wrestlers are new to the sport, and due to the extremely hard work and tough nature that wrestling requires, more than 50% of the boys who attended the first practice quit within the first week. I have also seen the same lack of perseverance, work ethic, and mental toughness in the classroom while teaching English, and it saddens me. I don’t know that my philosophy described below is the answer to the pathetic mindset that is spreading throughout our nation, but I do know that the answer does not exist in telling kids—or anyone else-- that they “deserve” or are “entitled” to anything just because they are fortunate enough to be Americans. On the other hand, I do know that most of the young people I work with perform better when they take this message to heart. For the thirty-one wrestlers who have chosen not to give up, I am beginning to see their attitudes and work ethics improve.
I would like to use this opportunity to share some thoughts with you regarding our upcoming season. Among my own goals, I want each of you to develop qualities that will help you succeed both on and off the mat. In life, it is important for you to appreciate that what we obtain or accomplish too easily, we tend to value too lightly. Most accomplishments that are meaningful and worthwhile require hard work and dedication. To be successful, you must be willing to make sacrifices concerning your free time. Working when you may not feel like working is not always fun --just ask your parents-- but it always pays off if you have the discipline to do it.
Furthermore, I want to stress the value of competition. When we compete against one another, we push each other to get better. Respect all your opponents --whether they are teammates or rivals-- because they contribute a great deal to your own improvement. Without competition, we tend to grow complacent, lazy, and inactive. Unfortunately, some people misunderstand competition. They fail to see how their rivals are actually helping them to better themselves. When you encounter individuals like this, respect yourself and carry yourself with dignity no matter how your opponents behave. Let your training and preparation speak for itself. Self-discipline and serious preparation make much more powerful statements than cheap words and shameful behavior. Remember that.
I am looking forward to working with all of you. Lets work together to make this a great season.