Rebecca Hagelin

My daughter told me this week about something she heard a speaker say at her church that really impressed her. When she shared it with me, it really got me thinking too. What he said wasn’t particularly profound, but I've taken it to heart and it seems like God is having fun using it to reshape the way I operate.

He said, “Churches everywhere are dying for their preferences.”

Let that sink in for a moment and consider the implications. I think it’s safe to say that it isn’t just churches that are dying for their preferences, but families and marriages as well.

Let me back up a bit and start with a broader base. When Christianity first began to spread, it was revolutionary—not simply because the message was new to everyone, but because the message was for everyone. Never before or since has there been a religion so inclusive, so harmonizing, as the one built around Jesus Christ.

In the apostle Paul’s letter to the young church in Ephesus, he reminded them of what Jesus had done to make peace between them and the Jewish people:

“His purpose was to create in himself one new humanity out of the two, thus making peace, and in one body to reconcile both of them to God through the cross, by which he put to death their hostility. He came and preached peace to you who were far away and peace to those who were near. For through him we both have access to the Father by one Spirit.

Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household.”

Throughout the letter, Paul stressed the importance of unity in the body of believers. It’s a theme he carries through all of his letters to the churches, especially in his letter to the Corinthians, where he also emphasizes the importance of diversity within the body.

Being unified doesn’t mean you lose your identity. Instead, when separate parts are joined together, their individual functions become more apparent and more important.

Paul wrote,

“Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ… in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be. If they were all one part, where would the body be?”

Rebecca Hagelin

Rebecca Hagelin is a public speaker on the family and culture and the author of the new best seller, 30 Ways in 30 Days to Save Your Family.
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