Born in 1922, the daughter of schoolteachers, she soon had to learn how to fend for herself. What would you say the chances were for a girl who lost her father at 10 (in a freak elevator accident at the state Capitol), had to support her mother and polio-stricken sister the rest of their lives, and wound up knocking around the country?
Answer: The chances are very good (a) if you're born in America, and (b) if you're born Helen Gurley. The young lady was no dummy (class valedictorian at her high school in L.A., and most popular girl, too) and never said no to an adventure. Or failed to learn something of commercial value from it. All of which explains her success, at least by the world's fleeting standards.
"I'm just a little girl from Little Rock/ But fate led me straight to Murray Hill." Well, maybe not straight, but she'd wind up making once fashionable Murray Hill look like the slums. Her obituary in the Arkansas Democrat-Gazette called her "one of the world's most popular and influential editors," which may say more about the world's taste than hers.
Editor/author Brown's success provides ample documentation for the sage observation attributed to H.L. Mencken that "nobody ever went broke underestimating the taste of the American public." Onward and Downward! But never call it vulgarity. Call it popularity and influence, which the obit writers politely did in Helen Gurley Brown's case. Nil nisi bonum and all that. After all, her 1962 best-seller "Sex and the Single Girl," was published in 28 countries, translated into 16 languages, and became a Major Motion Picture starring Tony Curtis. So there. She could laugh all the way to the Chase Manhattan.
How describe Helen Gurley Brown? She was a best-selling writer, an advertising copywriter of considerable note, savvy editor, mother confessor who never ceased confessing, certainly a stylesetter, and a combination Mae West and Oprah Winfrey for her (long) time.
What a girl and, soon enough, woman. She edited Cosmopolitan, that supermarket staple, for 32 years and made it a guide for young women all over the world who adopted her advice ("Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere") or pretended to.