Rebecca Hagelin

Everybody loves a hero. But pop culture spends so much time worshipping Hollywood stars and super athletes that many of our children don't know a true hero from an imposter.

Add that to fact that the news media constantly criticize our Armed Services, that our schools often teach revisionist history, and that many leaders "blame America first," and it's no wonder that our children seem more prone to want to grow up to become a pop icon than anything akin to a "superhero" of old. Nearly gone are the stories of mighty men rescuing damsels in distress or of those courageously leading brave soldiers into battle to free the oppressed.

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A fourth-grade teacher recently learned just how low the hero-bar has fallen when she assigned an exercise on heroes and role models. She asked her students to draw a picture of someone they aspired to be like and explain why. The children chose "heroes" like Madonna and 50 Cent; more than half the boys' glorified criminal characters with one stating he wanted to be a "hit man."

The majority of girls drew women who were in some way pop icons, mostly dressed in something skimpy. There were no soldiers, no rescue workers, no stories of our Founding Fathers, great explorers or "ordinary Americans doing extraordinary things." The children listed only thugs, rappers and pop stars.

We do our children a great injustice when we rob them of knowing about people who exhibit courage and self-sacrifice. The result just might be a generation with nothing truly great to aspire to.

We benefit both our children and our country when we teach that real heroes are people willing to make great sacrifices on behalf of others. A primo athlete might have our well-deserved awe and wonder, but that does not make him a hero. An actress might merit our admiration, but that doesn't make her a heroine. Only those who selflessly risk their safety, their fortunes, their own dreams or their very lives for others are worthy of being called heroes.

Why is it so important to make the distinction? For one, "to give honor to whom honor is due." And so our children will understand the importance of being willing to put everything on the line to preserve freedom or the well-being of others. America simply cannot continue to be the "land of the free and the home of the brave" without a renewed understanding and the continued practice of heroism in its truest sense.

Rebecca Hagelin

Rebecca Hagelin is a public speaker on the family and culture and the author of the new best seller, 30 Ways in 30 Days to Save Your Family.
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