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Thursday, March 12, 2009
Floyd and Mary Beth Brown :: Townhall.com Columnist
Even Celebrities Are Bullied
by Floyd and Mary Beth Brown
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"Jessica's Agony.Bullied for Her Weight," a magazine cover blares in big, bold letters.

However, for singer Jessica Simpson, being bullied is not a new thing. Bullies taunted her while in high school too. "I would walk down the school halls and hear people talking about me," Simpson said. "Some would throw toilet paper at my house or throw eggs at my door... They really hated me."

Of course, she's not the only one to suffer attacks from bullies. Teen mega-stars Miley Cyrus and Taylor Swift both became the victims of bullies at school. Bullies taunt, ridicule, push, beat, and shun unmercifully their targets. Thousands upon thousands of children and teenagers dread going to school because of the bullies who await them --but it's not only kids who are tormented. Adults also encounter bullies.

Barbara Coloroso, author of "The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander," points out that bullying is about neither conflict nor anger. "It is about contempt -- a powerful feeling of dislike toward somebody considered worthless, inferior, or undeserving of respect.Contempt comes packaged with three apparent psychological advantages: a sense of entitlement, a liberty to exclude, and intolerance toward difference."

And it is a fallacy that it is just a part of growing up or something to be expected in childhood to ride out. Anxiety, depression and sometimes even suicide can be the consequences of this common but painful and possibly psychologically damaging occurrence.

Big, tough girls locked Miley Cyrus in a Tennessee high school restroom, she reveals in her newly released memoir, "Miles to Go." "I was scrawny and short.They shoved me in," she writes. "I was trapped. I banged on the door until my fists hurt. Nobody came. I spent what felt like an hour in there, waiting for someone to rescue me."

"A lot of girls thought I was weird," Taylor Swift says about her high school experience. "Actually, the word they liked to use was annoying. I'd sit at their lunch table and they'd move to a different one." Continued...

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Floyd and Mary Beth Brown are both bestselling authors and speakers. In 1988, working from their kitchen table, they formed Citizens United.
 
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Bullies need to be confronted!
When I was in elementary school, 6th grade, I was one of the bigger kids, but I guess I was one of the weirder ones too. I actually liked to read but I refused to do homework and so I got the 'stupid' label from my peers. One kid decided to take it to the physical level. He wasn't too brite considering he was a good 6 inches shorter and 20 pounds lighter than me.
After about a week of his continous kicking my chair, stabbing my back with pencils and 'flicking' my ears I blew up... during class.
I had him off his feet and pinned to a wall where I whispered "Touch me again and I will hurt you."
Our teacher and Principle weren't too pleased but our Principle said that as long as he saw that we had worked out our differences things wouldn't go any farther that the 'talk' he gave us.
We actually became good friends by high school.
I raised my daughter to always protect those smaller than she was - she has always been in the upper 5% of height and weight for her age group - and that attitude has served her well.

Gays as victims?
Here in Chicago we have a large gay community. Over 98% of gays admitted to hospitals for being beaten up were beaten by other gays. Birds of a feather.
Like Matthew Shepard, the martyr of the gay community, most people are picked on because they are smaller, No bully ever goes after a 6'5", 250 lb gay guy.
Never has our society been been more accepting of homosexuality. Sodomy laws have been dropped,clubs are allowed to operate without police intervention,and Chicago has even planned to open a "gay high school"
I am against the establishment of a gay high school for those who claim to be victims,(of their own gayness?)because it gives the message that the bullies win.Maybe we should round up all the bullies and give them a wedgie,although that could be a little gay.
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