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Monday, October 20, 2008
Allison Kasic :: Townhall.com Columnist
Understanding the Hookup Culture
by Allison Kasic
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-Alcohol is a major enabler of hookups.  The students that Bogle interviewed believe that drinking lowers their inhibitions, thereby making a hookup possible.  This finding is backed up by other studies that demonstrate “that alcohol consumption is correlated with the decision to have sexual intercourse as well as engaging in so-called risky sexual behavior, such as having casual sex.”

-Friends matter.  Bogle found that a student’s circle of friends “was a good predictor of how entrenched he or she was in hooking up.”

-Students overestimate their peers’ level of sexual activity and number of partners.  In turn, they judge themselves against these inaccurate standards.

-The hookup culture carries with it a host of health concerns, from binge drinking to STDs to sexual abuse.

In today’s fast-paced world, knowing the nature of a problem is half the battle in coming up with a solution.  Parents who want an insight into their children’s campus life should consider picking up a copy of Hooking Up as a first step to helping their college-age children make their college experience healthy and fulfilling.

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Allison Kasic is the director of R. Gaull Silberman Center for Collegiate Studies at the Independent Women's Forum.
 
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For MotherOf4, Joycey
How about if each of the couple asks the head-pastor of their church-organisation (note: I'm assuming they both are affiliated with the same one, though not necessarily the same local church) do the searching, then wait on God to see which prospect God wills for them?

BTW, this is the exact way that I got married, so you can see my obvious bias.

;)

Mother of 4 and Courtship Culture #1.5
[This got lost as my post was too long]

In the Western frontier, when a young woman reached the age of courtship, and her parents approved, the family would paint the front gate a different color (I forget what color). This let the social world know that courtship would be welcome and not offensive (she was not already spoken for nor too young by family's standards). This did not involve any heavy-handed interference by the parents, but helped and encouraged young people to find each other. The parents did not tell anyone WHO to marry, but made it a little easier to get things started.

The debutante was also similar. A young woman's "coming out" part (debut) was intended to introduce her to the social world. At that time, this would be aimed at marriage. A man would not call on a young woman until her parents approved by introducing her to society as a debutante (debut).

While we can't literally do that in most of society, imagine if parents, churches, and society as a whole could think up something similar to actually facilitate love and romance leading to marriage?
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