At the risk of oversimplification, take for example the myriad problems with America’s educational system. Despite massive public spending and an increased role on the part of the federal bureaucracy, it’s generally accepted that America’s public schools are inferior to private and parochial schools that do as well or better with far fewer dollars per pupil. Spending isn’t really the answer.
On the other hand, studies prove that children who regularly eat meals at home with their parents outperform their peers who do not in virtually every measurable area, from school to socialization to sleeping habits.
We could keep pouring money into our educational system, but we’d be better off just sending everyone home for dinner. That’s a testament to the power of parents.
As a parent I’m convinced that my best, most vital contribution to this nation will be the four people who learn in my home that their American citizenship is both a blessing and a responsibility; it’s not meant to be a free ride, but rather the freedom to make the most of themselves.
There may not be much I can do about the ill-conceived government programs that will most assuredly burden our children with an incomprehensible pile of debt, so instead I’m focusing on infusing our nation with civic virtue, delivered in measured doses around the kitchen table. If we don’t like the direction our nation is taking, it’s not enough to just shake our heads and express frustration; we have to train up the folks who one day will lead it.
“We the parents” are a powerful presence, indeed. By teaching our children to have self-discipline, forbearance, humility and honor, to live with moderation and civility and magnanimity, and to value their independence and liberty, we can offer the one and only long-term solution that will reinvigorate the vision of America as it once was: virtuous American citizens. |