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Saturday, March 21, 2009
Kathryn Lopez :: Townhall.com Columnist
Confusion Reigns as Tradition Decays
by Kathryn Lopez
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According to an article in the Boston Globe, an informal poll taken among 200 teenagers has revealed that almost half of them blame the pop star Rihanna for her recent beating, allegedly by her boyfriend, Chris Brown.

It's just one survey. But it's very bad news. And feminists are to blame.

I don't say that to bash Gloria Steinem or whomever the most easily blamed feminist would be at this point. I say it so we can collectively get our heads out of the feminist fog in which we've been lost.

I appreciate the kids wanting Rihanna to take some responsibility for her situation. She's an adult, after all, as is Brown. If Rihanna is getting beaten, she should get the heck away from the person responsible. And as a best-selling artist, she has the financial freedom to extricate herself from her trouble. But where's the outrage over what Brown is accused of doing? There's something off when so many people blame the victim, not the aggressor.

As one male reader e-mailed me: "The only times I can remember my father hitting me was for fighting with my sisters. I resented it as a child, but I told my father, shortly before he died at age 90, that it was the best life lesson he taught me of many."

He added: "I am stunned by the number of women, young and old, abused by men. There isn't a hell hot enough for men responsible for the injustice of abusing women." Now there's an appropriate reaction!

What has happened -- and what Rihanna and Chris have to do with Gloria -- is that by inventing oppression where there is none and remaking woman in man's image, the sexual and feminist revolutions have confused everyone. It's natural for us to expect men to protect women, and women to expect some level of physical protection. But in postmodern America, those natural gender roles have been upended by academic jargon and political rhetoric. The result is confusion.

And perhaps, too, a neo-feminist backlash. Continued...

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Kathryn Jean Lopez, editor of National Review Online, writes a weekly column of conservative political and social commentary for Newspaper Enterprise Association.
 
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As I have mentioned before, I work for a large law enforcement agency. And over the years, I've been involved in different self defense courses for women.

As I said, there is a hierarchy in our society regarding the weak, and ordinary civilized behavior and the exploitation of the weak.
You ARE oversimplifying and also assuming that those centuries of certain established rules of engagement regarding men and women were all good and didn't and shouldn't have had intervention from feminists.
You, and the typical TH writer have turned that into a dirty word.

The point is being able to have the equal respect a man can have, regardless of one's actual physical attributes. Regardless of one's social standing in life.
That is the basis for the feminist movement, and the ability for a woman to MAKE HER OWN CHOICES for herself, not having them made for her because of her gender.
It's about freedom and access too, and the merits of individual ability.

And jaybird, there are women in jihadist societies who ARE daring to make their voices known. They are brave, and under threat constantly.
And apparently YOU aren't such a knight yourself to even make such a lame statement nor defend the actions of feminists fighting Shari'a law.

Stupid is Bad Even if You're Christian
Give me an ever loving break.

WHICH Feminists? The ones who fought against rampant domestic violence in 19teens? The ones who now are the ONLY group making a difference in fighting abortion? (The front-o-the-clinic egotists are preventing pro-life legislation; FFL and the SBA List are the ONLY groups making any difference.) Or, maybe the feminists who DIED so all adults could vote? Or maybe you're talking about Jesus? Or JPII? Or B16? (ALL FEMINISTS, kids.)

Lame, scapegoating, naive, superficial judgements are ALWAYS unacceptable, even if you believe you're in the right religion. (Which, by the way, you should research.)

HATE IS ALWAYS UNACCEPTABLE. GROW UP AND STOP TRYING TO INCITE HATRED BASED ON LABELS YOU DON"T EVEN UNDERSTAND.
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