Jeri is so Very ...
One of the things that made this post most interesting to me is that the people being critical of her were all men.
Not to sound sexist, but I would probably be a bit more skeptical of a woman who told me something negative about Jeri.
But when three men tell me they are offended by her, it strikes me that this isn't a case of cattiness, but of a person (male or female) who rubs people the wrong way ...