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Tuesday, August 04, 2009
Rebecca Hagelin :: Townhall.com Columnist
The Death of Conscience
by Rebecca Hagelin
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Our teenagers are more sexually active than any generation of youth before them. They also are consuming more pornography and compromising basic moral standards more often. It seems that many of them have lost not only their innocence, but their conscience, too.

The plethora of negative and immoral behaviors glorified by a media world that's gone stark raving mad -- combined with graphic, non-judgmental sex education and a highly sexualized culture in general -- causes many of them to lose understanding of what is wrong and what is right.

When a young child's sensibilities are constantly violated, and he begins to ignore the natural pangs of guilt after yielding to cultural pressures, he can end up being miserable, and begins to develop a hard heart and weak spirit.

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If we as parents blindly turn our own hearts away from them because we're scared of confrontation, or because we're too lazy to do "the hard stuff" like fight for their integrity, we have a hand in dooming their young spirits to inner torment. And, ultimately, if the pattern continues, to the loss of basic decency and sensitivity to evil.

In chapter 32, the Psalmist reflects on the misery that comes with ignoring a guilty conscience:

"When I kept things to myself, I felt weak deep inside me. I moaned all day long. Day and night you punished me, my strength was gone as in the summer heat."

Do you really want your child to live that way?

It's critical as a parent to take control and do everything in your power to make certain that the culture does not molest your child's young mind. Setting standards for media consumption can help avoid a lot of regrets, especially when it comes to the evil of pornography. But since we are all sinners, we also need to learn to recognize when our children might be feeling uncomfortable and guilty -- and offer them hope and a way out of their despair. Continued...

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Rebecca Hagelin is a public speaker on the family and culture and the author of the new best seller, 30 Ways in 30 Days to Save Your Family.
 
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non-believer
A good message, but the biblical passages don't work for us non-believers (Atheism is a religion).

I teach my children, now teens, the Golden Rule first and foremost. It's simple, easy to understand, and covers everything.

Second, I overcommunicate. Every time a touchy subject comes up, we talk about it. Sex, teen pregnancy, cutting, DUI, nothing is off limit. Since they attend public schools, there's an unlimited supply of examples of kids they don't want to be like. The 13-year-old mother of twins, the girl who had her baby before freshman year, the girl in choir who had her baby between junior and senior years, then married the father before graduation. The kid who helped get his friend killed because he was driving the car when his friend lost his grip while skateboarding. The kid who got himself and all of his friends killed when he ran a stop sign?

What are their futures going to be like? How would those decisions and rach actions affect your goals?

Third, I keep them so busy with activities that they don't have time or opportunity to get into trouble. "Idle hands are the devil's workshop". My daughter has 19 hours or more of ballet a week, plus 2 top choirs and voice lessons. My son has marching band, jazz band, wind ensemble, and private lessons.

Last, I know where they are and who they're with.

Akagi
No assumption was made that "you" were unhappy...nor am I imposing my values on another...just simply stating a truth, Jesus said that...I am the resurrection and life...one who has life in Jesus has eternal happiness, not hard to figure!

Actually Jesus gave us the original "Golden Rule", Confu...just reversed it a bit...but ok!

And what's wrong with Christian values? Simply because another wishes not to live by them, does not render them "null and void", for right will always be right.

Gosh Akagi...why so testy at moral living?

Tony
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