Please don't fret about the top students and their "superior" colleges. 98% are lemmings, no matter how creative/alternative/cool they think they are. If a state school, community college, tech training, military are your choices... Look forward to being smug in your lack of debt (or indebtedness to parents) upon graduation!
Conservatives are big on pushing traditional liberal arts education. Beyond Hillsdale College, you'll be hard-pressed to find a school where you can survive the leftist professors in charge of the classics.
Read Charles Murray's "College Daze" column:
http://www.aei.org/publications/filter.all,pubID.28471/pub _detail.aspYou're already thinking more clearly than a lot of 30-somethings. I encourage you to think about a career that allows you to produce something real. You'll be happier at the end of each day, and satisfied at the end of your life.