It sounds like we're very similar -- except I'm straight, married to a woman and a little older than you (and apparently not as well pedigreed). I have found TH to be a pretty good spot for classically liberal (not the modern socialist kind), small government patriots.

There are a few gay-bashers out there I've seen -- though most anti-homosexuality messages I've seen are from folks who believe it's a lifestyle choice that they object to on the basis of their religious beliefs. Their objection seems to be to the militant gay agenda.

There seem to be lots of intelligent people here who are well informed and know what they believe -- and can defend their points of view rationally, without descending into vitriol, for the most part.

Maybe we'll run into one another.
I hope you get some traffic and you check out some of the other blogs and columnists. I particularly like Walter Williams (and he always has a new column on Wednesdays, I'm headed there next).