NJ Supreme Court Decision on Gay Rights

I have not had much exposure to homosexual men, but what exposure I have had in my life, was not pleasant.

1) I once worked with 2 homosexual men at a bank. I am a Christian woman, and was interested in speaking to them about their "lifestyle choice". One was very nice to me, and even though I didn't agree with his choices, we agreed to disagree. The other, however, was openly hostile to me even though I was always respectful of him, not trying to "preach" to him in any way, except to say that I didn't agree with the homosexual life. This man gossiped about me, scorned me, and behaved as if he hated me, even though I had done NOTHING to hurt or bad-mouth him. I concluded that it was that I was 2 things he hated: A woman and a Christian. I lost touch with these 2 men over the years, but that was in 1979 or 1980, so I have to believe that one or both of them must have been infected and/or died of AIDS. Their sin probably killed them.

The other unexplainable occurance was approximately 8 years ago, when I was a manager at a small company in my city. I had a staff of about 35, and most worked part-time. One such person was a homosexual male. This person was, once again, openly hostile to me even though I had done nothing to hurt him, and HE actually was breaking some rules of the company. Since I was the manager, I had to speak to him about the rules he was breaking, and discipline him accordingly.

Well, that did it. I was enemy #1. I NEVER discussed his homosexuality to him, and never talked about his homosexuality to anyone, nevertheless, this man was openly defying me and trying to catch ME breaking rules (which I wasn't doing, so he had no case). Then, one day about a month after this incident, he came in at his punch-in time, and quit right on the spot. He looked at me with a satisfied grin on his face, like I would crumble and beg him to stay. No way. OK. Goodbye was all I could say. Then I walked him out, and asked Security for his pass to the building. When he walked out, all I could do was say a little "Thank you" prayer to God. The hostility coming off that man was blatant and visible.

Those are my 2 experiences with homosexual men, which have conviced me that there are MANY homosexual men out there, that HATE women, I think, just because they're jealous. Satan has put hate in their hearts, and directed that hate to women because most men love women, and not them.

Now these homosexuals don't just want us to tolerate their behaviors, but to ACCEPT it. No way will I accept that homosexual life as normal, and NO WAY WILL I VOTE TO GIVE SAME SEX "COUPLES" THE PRIVALEGE OF BEING MARRIED.

I have met some that were hateful of me as a Christian. Those men are usually so deep in sin that they can't see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Some of the best comments on Gay Marraige and Homosexuality from a Christian perspective is in a book, "Separation of Church and God, The Final Judgment", by Jack Heckathorne. You might want to check it out.

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