Sexual Harassment Charge Just Means Someone Is Ugly.

I'm an attractive woman, and I know it. I agree with you. I figured out a long time ago not to dress up at work because I find all the men there unappealing. Why attract their unwanted attention? So I cover my stuff up.

Occassionally, though, a guy will try and flirt with me despite my best efforts to look plain jane. It's annoying, but I know how to blow him off.

At a former workplace, there was a crazy man who harrassed all the women -- except me. So I guess either he thought I'm ugly, but looking at some of the women he went after, I'm thinking it's really because I put off the vibe to not even try.

I wonder if the women secretly want the attention, or if they're just afraid to be honest and tell the guy to bug off. Lots of people do have difficulty with confrontation, and would prefer to let someone else do it for them. That behavior bleeds over into so many areas in the workplace, don't even get me started.

Reminds me of Rush's commentary on "uglo-Americans".
Good observation.