There's a scene in the movie "Pretty Woman" where the kindhearted hooker played by Julia Roberts asks her client, portrayed by Richard Gere: "Who do you want me to be?" Regardless of who she might really be, she realizes that it's far less attractive than a tabula rasa onto which her client can project his own desires, and around which she can then build a tailor-made palatable persona. It's essentially the same principle that dating-and-mating books recommend adopting when suggesting that women retain an air of mystery at the outset of a relationship and be the first to hang up in...
This reminds me of something I have read in Robert Greene's book "48 laws of power". law# 48. Assume Formlessness. http://varun82vijay.blogspot.com/2011/07/48-laws-of-power-by-robert-greene-and.html
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