I don't worry about "gay marriage" because it is like worrying about the safety of Santa Clause. Both "gay marriage" and Santa Clause fit into the same mode. Neither one exists though many people act as though they do. Calling something a marriage does not make it one. Marriage, by its definition, EXCLUDES gays unless the male gay is married to the female gay. By the way, that would create a situation in which it would be OK for a gay couple to raise their own children.