If any of your beliefs about republicans were true, you might have a case there.
As for women being free to control their lives, we see no problem. When a woman wants to control another human life (by killing it), then we do have a problem. When a woman chooses to get pregnant, she waives her right to kill her dependent.
Here is an analogy. If I choose to take on the caregiving of a totally helpless old relative, do I have the right to kill him or simply abandon him with no source of support, if he becomes inconvenient to me?