Be careful about accusations. They tend to tell a lot more about the accuser than the accused.
No, we don't like war. Not many really do. What we see is that the threat of Islamic terrorists going nuclear is far greater than even the threat of the old Soviet Union launching a nuclear attack. Conventional war is much preferred. And the wars in Iraq AND Afghanistan are minuscule in comparison to the size of the populations involved in this war. You want war? Just keep on doing what we did before 9/11 and we will eventually see a much bigger war. I guess your accusation does tell us more about you than myself.