Homosexuals have been having private, consensual relationships of their own choosing since long before it dawned on anyone to push for homosexual "marriage." And yes, the whole goal of the gay marriage movement is to normalize sodomy. Homosexuals are dying to feel normal, and think that the state's stamp of approval will give them that feeling. It won't. Once gay "marriage" is legal everywhere, after the initial novelty which will draw a bunch of new couples into such an arrangement, gay "marriage" will be come even more passe than real marriage is to straights. Virtually no gays will marry, but gay sex will be enshrined as normal by the state.