There's an entire book written on defining normal. It's called the Holy Bible. It was written for just these types of questions by a loving Father who is also a fair Judge.
Would you think a loving father would make rules to live by for his children and then not discipline them for not following his rules? There has to be consequences for inappropriate actions, especially willful. His whole purpose is for all to have everlasting life but only if you follow His rules. Mankind has been trying to rearrange, reword and alter His rules for a long time but His end result has never changed.