You are an exemplar of the "soft bigotry of lowered expectations": Your moral double standard regarding the use of the n-word oozes condescension toward blacks. And, of course, Larry Elder did not limit his Al Sharpton quotes to those that used the n-word; apparently, in your moral universe, blacks must be given a pass on the use of racist and anti-Semitic invective, because they cannot be held to the same standard of civility and probity as whites; their superegos development must not be up to white standards.
As for the use of the c-word--a word that women find every bit as offensive as blacks do the n-word--I guess women do not have the same "property rights" to offensive words that blacks have . . . just because.
Your moral compass needs adjustment, guy.