You don't hand out invitations. You are an idiot. Are you a mouse in his pocket, you are just 'SO SURE he expressed his views about gays at work? My barracks room mate was gay, and this is in the early 80's,when they were deep in the closet. I didn't like it, but I didn't talk about it either. You obviously have never served. So please stop talking about something you don't understand.