"Get over it already and focus on bringing those who did this to justice!"
Really? Would that be Dear Leader who couldn't be found while this was going on? Or perhaps your girl Hitlery who repeatedly denied additional security for the compounds, lied about it, and then tried to hide while her shills made up stories about how even though her signature is on the documents, that doesn't mean she actually signed it, or perhaps her orders that farmed the security for the complexes to the very animals who coordinated and launched the attack. But most telling of all, where was she when the consulate was repeatedly requesting help during the attack, and who ordered the special forces extraction team in Tripoli to stand down and not go in. That order could only have been issued from the White House, leading back to Dear Leader and Hitlery. So keep telling yourself there is no there there.