This goes to the entire egocentric and in my opinion of "coming out of the closet." Do straight people come out of the closet? There's a reason, our sexuality isn't a spectacle, and we don't treat ours like it is, they do. They want attention and they want to be the focus of something. From gay marriage to pride parades it's all designed to feed their narcissism. That said I'm sure there are gay people who just go about their business in a quiet and normal manner and they don't NEED to get married and they don't come out of the closet because they never were to begin with.