Honesty hurts at times, but it needs said also. I was raised during Vietnam and the "Please send your donations to this charity, so this child can have a cupful of rice a day." For the starving people of Bangladesh, and other countries that had way to many people for the amount of food. As a child I was more than happy to have sent them what I did not want to eat, as I grew up it was more of giving them a slow death sentence "Here is just enough food to prevent you from dying." More torture than charity.