I don't think any of us are questioning the reasons why women have abortions. When faced with an unplanned pregnancy we can all find a 'valid' reason of why having a baby would be an inconvenience and no doubt a dramatic, life-changing experience. But if you believe that abortion is murder, then Pro-Choice people need to understand our perspective - 'there is no choice'. You can throw stats at us all day long, but if you believe it's murder this is a futile discussion. You can't plan your life perfectly, things happen and I can't murder a baby because it will be an inconvenience to my life. Pro-Lifers have a practical perspective that life will take ups & downs, dramatic twist & turns no matter how much I try to 'plan'.