Adoption? Would you give your child away? Because that wasn't an option for me. I have loved my daughter since the moment that I knew that I was pregnant. And I am certainly not crying over spilled milk. I made the choice to have sex. I made the choice to have my daughter. I made the choice to love her. And I don't regret that. It's the best thing that ever happened to me, the best decision that I ever made. So, your foster daughter has a less than ideal situation. That's not all single mothers. Don't lump us together.