Are you a mother AND a moron?! It's entirely possible that the biological father had no knowledge of anything other than having been with this woman on one occasion. It's entirely possible that since she chose this guy for some twisted reason, she also never let him know, SO HE'S NO ACCESSORY AT ALL!!! He KNOWS no such thing. She is the criminal & no matter how much you attempt to project blame off of yourself & onto this or any other male, she was at fault for committing this crime, as it seems were you as well.