"we are winning on Liberty"... which is why we are "losing" on "gay marriage".
AFAIC the .gov should get out of "marriage" completely and leave it to the Churches.
"Marriage" - AS A .gov SANCTIONED INSTITUTION exists(ed) for a select few purposes... most of them noxious.
Just like "welfare", as soon as you take away the .gov incentives for or against a particular activity, the activity will normalize to its statistical mean... which, in the case of "gay marriage" will be about 3%.
Don't subsidize it and it will go away...