Same sex marriage is about fragmenting our traditional values and weakening our family, community and religious bonds. It never was about gay rights, as civil unions provide a parallel mechanism without violating established definition of marriage. Not good enough. The reality is same sex marriage is an obviously absurd idea that should never have been taken seriously in the first place. The fact that is front and center with SCOTUS and national focus shows that the forces for chaos and confusion have been initially successful. Time to wake up and reject the notion of their redefining our words, our lives and our future.