born gay? oh, born with a sin nature, yes, we all are. Some men would say they have always lusted after children...so that is ok, since they are "born with" this desire? Seems to defy logic and reason to say that whatever behaviors you are born with must be ok and should be celebrated. Chemical addiction is "something they are born with". So why stop their dangerous, unhealthy behaviors? Outside of a Biblical command against homosexuality...I, as a medical professional, know the horrible medical results of using parts of the body outside of what God intended as natural, no matter the "sexual orientation" We have laws that punish lots of behaviors...because human beings have the ability to control themselves and make choices.