con't: And gay parents are raising their biological children too. Their situation is the same as heteros. They have children biologically, step children or adopted children. And the anti gay, demanding gov't benefit of marriage for SOME children, but not these children means that all children don't matter to you. That the survival of all children who could make a contribution don't matter. Just the ones with bio parents raising them. Well, the selfish savagery of that mindset doesn't surprise me coming from people who don't appreciate their UNEARNED privilege, but hold onto it out of lack of willingness to share it. Truly why such uncivilized thinking shouldn't prevail.