And how do you make desciples? By bluntly telling people what they are doing wrong? Or by living in such a way that attracts people, draws people in to the light. OR by explaining how a relationship with God is the best way to truely live. Like I said, it is good to stand on principle but be quick to examine your methods of doing things. If it is not working, you are probably no doing it right. Further, it can be really easy to push people so far away from the church that they have a hard time giving Christianity another chance. Remember that we are to be emassadors for our loving God. That means show the way, don't just sit on your butt and point your finger and say that something is wrong. Be the change, its what we were born to do.