Why do you believe the right to marry is 'unmerited' in the case of gays?
Did you earn your 'right' to be married?
And why is your disapproval 'rightful'?
Just admit you're a bigot, and wear it proudly!
Don't be ashamed of what or who you are!
Marriage is just a way of saying 2 people are consenting to shared ownership of their things, and shared responsibility for what they do.
Why the hangup about a word? Civil unions...? Marriage...?
Are people who go to a J.P. not 'married'?