I think the problem is that how we view the Jews is determined by how we view God. I think the Jews themselves would rather this was not so, maybe they would like to be viewed as "just people". But in fact they are God's chosen, and God has not changed on this. I remember before I accepted Christ I thought the Jews were interesting, but kind of odd. I didn't hate them, but I wanted to keep them at arm's length. Now since having accepted Christ, I have a special love for them in my heart. I'm not sure they want either the distancing or the special love, but there it is.