You're making a lot of assumptions about God. First and foremost, the bible is what condemns homosexuality. God did not write the bible. Even if it was divinely inspired, fallible men still wrote it and how can fallible men not be questioned? The mere fact that there are so many denominations of Christianity alone indicates that fallible men have misconstrued the message of God. And unless God speaks to every single human being simultanesouly and directly without using books as mediaties, it is not logical to merely assume God's approval or disapproval of something like homosexuality.