All it needs is the correct presentation, right? Because nobody's thought of that in the many millenia of humanity.
I think most men (and women) understand rape and violence are not acceptable, and have for quite some time, and parents teach and have taught, and try to instill in their children the wrongness of violent acts. I have more faith in men than that.
It seems to be the current generations , who seem to have been raised in vacuums having been allowed to choose for themselves what's right and wrong for them, that have this strange unawareness they're trying grasp. And assume nobody understands their epiphanies. Modern child-raising theory home to roost? It's like it devolved humanity.