Well, she's kinda right but not communicating it well. I think she means that men need control themselves in every situation and the presence of a woman is not defacto permission for sex.. This means keep your hands to yourself, look but don't touch, control yourself and ask permission. Basic stuff everyone should have learned in grade school. It is never an excuse that 'she was asking for it' or 'she made me do it' no matter what the woman is doing. You (that is men) as an adult, have to be accountable to yourself and your actions.