This is why "once upon a Time. . . ", young men were taught to control the use of their maleness, until they got married. Most young males "knew" their girlfriends in the Biblical Sense, long before marriage. But, in our generation, protection was used, and (generally speaking), this wasn't discussed openly, because of it was considered to be "private" between two people. Although the gossip about who did what with whom certainly existed. Today's Mothers and Fathers need to be responsible, and completely ignore the feminist B.S. Yes, there are differences between men and women. Let's rejoice in those differences, and recognize them as a true gift from God.