Robert, you're correct to an extent but you're missing the point. If 2 gay people got married in my state today, it would not cause trouble or interfere with my life or rights immediately. But the main point is twofold which I kindly ask you to focus on:
1) gay mrriage is an erosion of culture and society OVER TIME. (This is not meant to offend you or anyone who is gay) Sure, nothing happens immediately if gay marriage were the law of the land but over time, more problems and challenges will arise. iI think a lot of people miss this.
2) Anytime one value is promoted, celebrated, esteemed, given more attention, etc. than another, such as gay marriage over natural, as you see so much in our culture and media today, cont.