Saying that homosexuality is not normal, or natural is not especially a judgment. It's a simple statement of fact. It is not 'the norm.' You are not 'born' a homosexual, you are born sinful in a sinful world. (All of us.) Throughout life you are faced with choices. Some people are more attracted to some forms of sin (Lying, cheating, greed etc.) than to others. That does not mean they were 'born' to be that specific kind of person.
God doesn't love you any less and you are no worse than the rest of humanity, but you are where you are by choice...not by birth.