Most of the women who have children out of wedlock are single by choice. They get more money (and sex) by having5 baby daddies than 5 kids from one daddy. The marriage penalties and welfare incentives built into the system by democratic advocates are responsible for this murderous environment. One way to save these kids from a life of struggle and misery is to take custody from the mother to the father, (if he wants it), or to adoption, or possibly even orphanages. Holding only men responsible for decisions only women make doesn't work.