I like your honest counselor. I'm a woman of the late 60s Free Love Generation. We started this phenomenon of giving sex away for free. What a huge scam we perpetrated on ourselves.
The results have been predictable - meaningless sex, children without parents, no families.
And I agree that it is a woman who needs to demand the best of a man. They (men) are out there. I found one - and still here after 26 years.