Ashley, you nailed it.
We who say we are against abortion should be giving as much love as possible both to children born with defects, as well as to the families who bravely bring them into the world and care for them.
I grieve for this woman who made this decision - both because she felt she was doing the right thing, and because she is now dead, as is her tiny baby.
And the husband now has neither in his life.
Conservatives and Christians (not necessarily the same group, by any means) should be the shining light of compassion in these instances. Cries of "murderer" or the like should be the last thing heard from the lips of any of us.
Christ loved the sinner (e.g., me) with all his heart. He did not condone our sin, but he loves us.