How about, instead of shaming people, who mostly don't know how to feel it any more anyway, we set a time limit and child limit for receiving welfare. How about, "No money after the third out-of-wedlock child by different fathers." How about, "Work for Welfare." How about, "Lasts for one year while you find a job." How about, "Lasts for one year while you put yourself through college and can be extended year by year as long as you prove progress towards a degree and ends one year after college while you look for a job." There are many better ways welfare could be administered, yet, for some reason (progressive nanny mentality), we chose the worst possible way.