First let me say that I am not "against" gays. But the fact is, they are not the same as heterosexuals. So they should not be married. They should have a "union" the is specific to themselves. And they should have to go thru their state government too achieve the rights they think they deserve and just take the rights that have been established for married men and women who are not like them at all. Personally, I am insulted that they think they have the "right" to be married.