Tinsldr2-I understand where you are coming from. I have a gay cousin who is not celibate She knows perfectly well my views on homosexual behavior and the redefinition of marriage. And she is okay with it. Do I love her any less because she is gay? Absolutely not. Do I approve of her lifestyle? Absolutely not. The point I, and I think DCM, are trying to make is: If ONE definition for marriage does not exist, then it becomes difficult to restrict ANY definition. You are okay with close blood relatives marrying, but I'll bet that some gay people will find that appalling.