There is a big difference between “equal” and “fair”. My kids once when they accused me of being “unfair”. I explained that I DO treat them fairly, just not equally. After all, if I treated them equally, I’d by them the same size shoes, even though the shoes wouldn’t fit one or the other of them.
Similarly, men and women are not the same. They are different, just as God created them. To ignore this difference is to be blind to God’s plan.